Sex I Want to Have

Firstly, I just joined the site FetLife.com, which is a social networking site for people into BDSM and other fetish-yness. You can find me under EssinEm if you join.

Last fall, when I was with J still, someone asked me what kind of sex I wanted to have than I hadn’t yet. At the time, my only answer was sex in an ice rink, because J and I did pretty much everything I wanted to do. I’d say “hey, let’s get it on in a restaurant” and we’d head to the local diner. I’d say “hey, I got some new toys I want to try out” and next thing I knew, one of us was tied to the bed getting fucked by some new toy.

But I’ve realized that there are many more things I want to do sex wise, and many of them need to happen in the next 4 months before I move back to CO, because I have *no* networking there, and the scene (fetish, lesbian, queer, trans, you name it) is on average MUCH smaller and much older and much more relationship-y than it is here.

So here’s my list. If you can help me out, and are in the Philly area, or maybe NY, let me know. Or CO for that matter, since I’m headed back.

*I want to fuck more female bodied people

*I want a threesome (or moresome?) with all women

*I want to be fucked by someone strapped on who knows what they’re doing (and has done it often) to give it the “real college try”

*I want to be tied up and forced to come over and over and over again until I can’t take it anymore (and then maybe once more?)

*I want to find a rigger and be suspended in rope bondage

*I want to attempt violet wand play

*I want to be flogged by someone who knows what they’re doing

*I want to experiment in more breast/nipple play

*I want to try more fisting (either giving or receiving). It was so incredibly amazing as the giver, and I KNOW I can take a fist…eventually

*I want to do some sort of BDSM scene in public (club, play party, etc)

*I want to have sexual activity of some kind in an ice rink

*I want to have someone eat me out…in public (under a skirt perhaps)

*I want to wear a remote controlled vibe out in public and give someone else the remote

*If I can find one whom I trust and is respectful and good at sex (and giving head , I want to try having penis in vagina intercourse with guy…it’s been 2+ years, I’m open to giving it another try.

*I want to have hot make-out, gropage, handiwork, massage, etc session in a hot tub.