My first ever fetish party

Here is a picture of my new tattoo…it’s clearly still healing, but isn’t it beautiful?!?! HHNT!

I didn’t write about it yesterday, because I was more concerned about the EC petition and termites eating my apartment, but Wednesday night, I went to my very first “real” (sorry Anne, I loved your party in college too!) fetish night…you know, where people are hanging from frames in rope suspensions and others are being flogged on St. Andrews crosses.

I wasn’t sure if I was quite ready for it, especially headed out to a fetish night by myself on a weekday night, but I met up with a good friend and her boyfriend, which made me feel slightly less awkward.

Some of the outfits were outstanding; corsets, full body latex suits, 5″ heels (and heeled boots), and of course a couple of school girl outfits. Most of the men were dressed all in black, with the exception of a few guys running around in red and leopard print jock straps (the guy in a jock strap on the pole, flopping around? That was one sight I would love to burn from my brain…).

There was a violet wand people were using in one corner, floggers and crops galore, and oh yes, Carpet Boy. Carpet Boy was dressed all in black, with a black face mask, and wanted women, particularly those in high heels, to step on him. Step on him, walk on him, grind their heels into him…you name it. I’ve never done anything like that, and while I totally validate all types of kinks and fetishes, I was afraid my heels were going to puncture some vital organs, or pop his scrotum or something…but I did it. I walked on carpet boys in heels and ground them into him, and after the second time, I was a little less panic-y about it.

Watching some of the rope suspensions was super hot too. I’ve never seen them done in real life; just on video/in pictures, so it was interesting seeing how much time and effort is really involved in getting someone tied up and suspended (and how much effort is involved with un-doing it), and how much fun one can have with someone who is hanging mid-air. This is a new goal of mine.

Anyways, overall, it was a ton of fun, and I hope to go back for it the first Wednesdays in April, May and June before I leave…